Soon after Tony and I were married, we found out that it would be difficult for us to have biological children. Tony wanted to look into adoption; I, however, wanted to try for biological children. We tried IVF with donated eggs…twice. No luck.
Eventually, we realized that we really just wanted to be parents and began looking into domestic adoption. Three years (and no requests to meet us) later, we started to pursue international adoption and attended an informational meeting held by our local agency. After reading about the various country programs, Tony and I decided that China was the country for us.
During the paperwork process, we kept hearing about (and being reminded about) the lengthening wait times for a child in the standard process. In our mid-40s, we knew that we would not be able to wait the 3 or 4 years after our dossier arrived in China for a referral. That’s when we decided to look into adopting a child with special needs. We knew, however, that we wanted a child as healthy as possible, rather than one with a more acute medical condition. Continue reading “A Match Made in Heaven”