Archive for April, 2009

URGENT: Melissa* Needs a Family Now!

Melissa, a girl in Holt’s Waiting Child Program, has only one month to be adopted

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On June 8, when Melissa turns 14 years old, she will no longer be eligible for international adoption.  Melissa is excited to have a family of her own.  At Holt, we believe this dream is worth fighting for.

Because of the small time frame, Melissa requires a family who has a dossier ready and completed current paperwork. She also needs a family with the wisdom, love and understanding acquired through experience in parenting older children.

Melissa was found abandoned as a small child. Now as a young teenager, she enjoys working with younger children, has a good appetite and is serious about learning and studying. Melissa’s earlier surgery corrected her cleft lip and palate.

Would you join us in asking God for a family for this precious, young girl? Perhaps He will nudge you or bring someone to mind who could embrace Melissa and wrap her into their loving family.

If you would consider bringing Melissa into your home, and giving her the loving family she so desperately needs, email Jessica Palmer in the Waiting Child Program at jessicap@holtinternational.org or call (541) 687-2202.

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Welcoming Children into Forever Families

Holt Board Member, Kim Hanson, serves as an airport greeter—volunteering to help adoptive families meet their children for the first time

By: Kim A. Hanson

The countdown to the airplane landing is like watching the ball drop in Times Square on New Year’s Eve, but instead of watching the ball, everyone watches the monitor for updates.

I can see the panic in the parent’s eyes, as I assure them their babies are on the plane. They get confirmation from other passengers, as well, who let them know their “babies are here!” As the Holt greeter, I am also crowd control and make sure that we don’t block the entire exit ramp, as we wait and wait for the babies and their escorts. In Korea, the escorts are told to be the last ones off the plane, which makes the wait even more excruciating.

Holt Board member, Kim Hanson, serves as an airport greeter for families welcoming their children from Korea.  Here she is with a boy she greeted in 2006.I finally see the escorts with the babies in front carriers, and my heart beats faster when I announce: “Here they are!” The parents start to cry, and I can see the relief in their eyes and the immense love they have for their babies. With tears in my own eyes, I lead the escorts to the new parents. Cameras are in high gear as flashes go off to capture every special moment.

I am a Holt-Korean adoptee and have three children, one adopted from Korea. I volunteered as a greeter for families in Omaha as a way to give back to Holt. My experience is a gift I never expected. Witnessing families receiving their babies and seeing those babies held by their new mothers and fathers is a truly heart-warming experience, and one that never gets old. I’ve been on the receiving end and know the feelings of uncertainty, panic, anticipation, and joy. As the greeter, I do the thinking for the new parents and hopefully calm them at the same time. Read the rest of this entry »

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What it Means to be a Mother

“I’m crying because I’m happy,” I said to my sons…Our smiles and quiet laughter made us all more at ease. We held our sons’ hands for the first time and walked to the gathering place for all of us who met our children for the first time that day. Three days later the boys were playing and acting wonderfully silly when Jason called: “ommoni, ommoni.”

“He’s calling you mom after only three days,” said Gary.

–Elizabeth Dwyer, adopted her sons from Korea in 1974

I am humbled each day as I reflect on the seven beautiful gifts of life God has so carefully entrusted to me. I thank God every day for the joys and sorrows I have experienced in my 14 years of being a Mom. I am awestruck at the miracles I am privileged to experience each day because of my children. It is through the miracle of adoption that my life has been beautifully transformed by my seven, whom God so carefully handcrafted for me and me for them. This Mother’s Day I wholeheartedly give thanks to God for my mother who gave me life, the birth mothers of each of my children, and most especially I give all honor and glory to God for my seven children who have made me a mother through the glorious journey of adoption.”

–Anne Casey, Mother of Maria (15), Xavier (11), Grace (9), Francisco (9), Michael (8), Teresa (7), and Joseph (4), (India.)

“I started Thai lessons with my daughters. One day I was outside when my eldest excitedly motioned to me through the window. I opened the door, and Sophie exclaimed, “Sadie can do it! Listen…” Sadie artfully pronounced a difficult Thai phrase, “Rao Rak” (“We love you”). I marveled not only in Sadie’s pride, but also in Sophie’s encouragement of her sister, and our mutual delight in this new skill. I couldn’t have said it better myself, in any language.”

–Dawn Moyer, Mother of Sophie, 8, and Sadie, 5 (Thailand)

My almost 3-year-old daughter recently proclaimed from out of the blue, “My mommy is happy.” What wonderfully sweet words to hear your child say. I thought about this statement for a few minutes and decided that, although ‘happy’ is typically a temporal state of being, for the most part I am “happy.” However, I think the word I would choose to describe myself is “joyful”: filled with joy for having the opportunity to be the mother of such an amazing child. Yes, Robyn I am happy. I am filled with joy!”

–Sandra Dryden, Mother of Robyn (China). From Holt International magazine’s summer 2008 edition

“What is Motherhood? Smiles and giggles, endless hugs and kisses, chance to be amazed by how someone so little can be so much better at seeing the beauty in everything, huge lesson in not sweating the small stuff, your life revolves around giving and receiving unconditional love beyond measure, an opportunity to be trusted with God’s most precious gift and mold that being into an honorable person, an eye opening experience to prove that mothers are the ones that should be thankful for the blessings given….Most rewarding job on the face of the planet”

–Veena, Mother of Bindiya, 5, (India)

“A mom is someone who cares endlessly about her family and creates a bond among them that is special only to them.  We love to be silly, sing songs and dance around our house.  Meal times are always fun as we watch our daughter throw her food on the floor!  The devilish looks she gives as she attempts to throw her spoon on the floor just one more time sends us into laughter and she knows that she once again rules!  Yes, she has hit the terrible two’s, but these years will soon pass and before we know it she will be off to college as they grow up so fast.  We are truly blessed to be Lindley’s parents.  She is full of life and truly a gift from heaven.”Lori Buchanan, Mother of Lindley (China)

Honor your mother or someone special this Mother’s Day by giving a Gift of Hope to a homeless and vulnerable child…..

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The Mother I Was Created to Be

A mother reflects on her adoption journey, as the adoption of her daughter from India is made final.

By: Michelle Mckay

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Six days before Mother’s Day, our third Child, Manna, will be legally and officially ours!

It’s hard to believe that it has been almost a year since I flew to India to bring home our daughter. I remember sitting on the airplane at JFK airport waiting to take off. I had never even been to Canada, let alone India! I was scared to death, but knew the Lord was with me every step of the way.

The hard part was over…the paperwork and the waiting. All I had to do was sit back and enjoy the next hours of travel that lay ahead…or so I thought. Read the rest of this entry »

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Broadcast Explores International Adoption

cox-samatha-b_2National Public Radio’s “Talk of the Nation” program recently broadcast a segment on international adoption, and Holt’s Susan Seun-keum Cox spoke as one of the two featured guests.
This thought-provoking program entitled “Why Did You Opt for an International Adoption,” originally broadcast on April 7.  Hosted by NPR’s Neal Conan, the program explored reasons families choose international adoption and issues surrounding the process of adopting as well as parenting internationally adopted children.  The 30-minute program also included several call-in comments from parents and a sibling of an internationally adopted brother.
Susan is Holt’s vice president of public policy and external affairs, and she was adopted from Korea.  The program also featured Isolde Motley, co-author of You Can Adopt, and mother of one biological child and two adopted children.

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